Friday, March 12, 2010

Is It A Mother’s Responsibility To Intervene In Her Daughter’s Life?

It is a mother’s responsibility to intervene in her daughter’s life. It is a mother’s responsibility because it keeps their daughters on the right track, helps them with decisions and allows them to obtain a strong mother-daughter relationship. Mothers are always needed in every daughter’s life.

In a way it is a mother’s responsibility to go into her daughter’s life to keep her in a clean path. This is because if she were taking a wrong decision the mother could stop her. Mothers can explain to their daughters what can be done in certain situations. For example, if a girl was being forced by her friends to smoke, the mother can talk to her daughter about the right thing to do. This would prevent her daughter from going into a path that is negative. Keeping your daughter on the right track is very important. A girl’s reputation can be destroyed just by taking one wrong turn. By mothers intervening in their daughters’ lives, they can be protected against things like drugs, alcohol, and types of abuses. Mothers are like their children’s guides; they tell them right from wrong until they learn to tell by themselves. When the time comes for a mother to let go of her child it becomes hard and it takes time. Mothers are very protective about their children.

Another reason why it can be the mother’s responsibility to intervene in their daughters’ lives is because they do not want their daughters to do something they may regret in the future. In other words, they can help their daughters make wise decisions about their lives. People need help all the time to make wise decisions and a mother is always willing to help her children make the right one. The mother may have also made a mistake in her life that she would not want to see repeating with her daughter. By getting involved into the lives of their daughters, mothers can see where their daughters are heading in life. Mothers are very caring towards their daughters.

In order to have a strong bond between a mother and daughter, it is important to know how each person feels and what goes on in their lives. This can be a mother’s responsibility to know and understand her daughters well. In order to do so, mothers have to intervene in their daughters’ lives making sure some secrets are shared. Mothers want to have a strong relationship with their daughters. To have a healthy mother-daughter relationship, one has to share personal secrets about themselves. By the mothers getting involved into their daughters’ lives, it allows them to get to know their daughter better.

In conclusion, mothers should intervene in their daughters’ lives to make sure they get a good image of right from wrong, to help make good decisions and to maintain a strong bond with each other. Mothers are always going to interfere into the lives of their daughters; however, it is about time that their daughters begin to share their personal lives with their mothers.

2 comments:

  1. Hey sajel:)
    I strongly agree on the part were you have said that it is important for a mother to intervene in her daughter life to keep her on the right track because it is evident that teenagers are very tempted to try new things like drugs as you have mentioned and if a daughter has her mother to tell her from what is right and what is wrong it will help her become a better person. Even though the daughter will rebel against her mother and create probelms but it will benefit the daughter for the future. Also mother's have more experience in life than her daughter so the mother will know very well from what is right and what is wrong. I really haven't thought of this question in your point of view becuase I thought that a mother should never intervene in her daughter's life but after reading your response i have changed my idea too because i also belive that a mother intervening in her daughters life will only benefit her even though the daugther will not agree at first but will see the positive outcomes later on in her life. I really enjoyed reading this and your formatting was very good :)

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  2. Hey, Sajel, I enjoyed reading your journal. I liked how you stated your points at the beginning of your journal, such as how it's a mother's responsibility to make sure their daughter is going through life on the right path, as well as to have a strong relationship with her daughter. You gave many good examples for what can happen to a daughter who is not being led on the correct path in life, such as drugs. There really isn't anyone else to guide them; it's the mother's responsibility to know what her daughter is doing with her life. This is because if a mother doesn't help her daughter on the right path, they'll stray off into somewhere they may regret, such as a life of selling drugs. The mother has to raise and teacher her daughter, even if her daughter is a capable teenager. This doesn't strictly mean that the mother has to be overprotective, but a mother should still be able to properly govern her daughter's life; just like how you emphasized in your journal. In order to do so, the mother will have to intervene one way or another, by getting involved, as you put in your journal nicely. Anyways, you wrote a good journal; you stated your points effectively and gave strong examples to help support them. Great job.

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